Carlift experience

If you're from Dubai, you might be familiar with "Carlift". Carlift is a term used like "carpool" wherein a private car will take you anywhere you want for a fee. The fee is usually lower than the usual taxi meter cost...but sometimes, it's even higher. It depends whether it's a "rush hour" or the place you want to go to is a dead spot (meaning, the driver won't have customers going back to the place you came from). Actually, this is illegal. If a private car/driver get caught, he will be fined Dhs4,000. So, what "carlifts" usually do is just spread their mobile numbers and ask the customers to call them whenever they need carlift.

Since I just joined to my new company which is supposed to be a 10-minute drive from my place, I needed someone who will bring me and fetch me to/from my office. Initially, I was just hailing taxi cabs everyday...but during rush hours, it's very difficult to get one...even if you call the hotline...the line is very hot, believe me!

So, I decided to look for carlifts in Gulf news. I happily found one. I called him and after many conversations, we agreed on the timing and fee. It was all set. He should be picking me up by 8:00 am in my house. So, the next day, I hurriedly went down to the lobby of our building. I waited there for 5 minutes before calling him. When I called him, I was surprised that the receiver was telling me that he doesn't know me, blah blah....I got furious!!! But I said nothing to the person...I just hung up the phone without saying goodbye!

Good thing, I was able to catch a cab outside our building who's waiting for hours for his customer.

Ngayon, magtatagalog na ko....galit na galit talaga ako sa carlift na yun! Napakahusay kausap! Walang word of honor!!! Pero sabi nga ni Randy, iexpect mo na yun....dahil ang kausap ko ay isang PANADOL! Bakit nga kaya ganun ang lahi nila? Pasensiya sa panlalahi pero maraming ganun sa kanila...magulo kausap, mahirap makaintindi, at higit sa lahat medyo may pagka- bobito at bobita! Pero kahit na niloko ako netong hinayupak na taong ito, hindi ko naman sila nilalahat. Meron din namang mahusay kausap sa kanila...gaya ng mga officemates ko at yung isa ko pang carlift. ...yun nga lang majority ata sa lahi nila eh maliit ang utak...

Pasensya sa terms ha...ganyan talaga ako pag nagagalit

....after the loonng period of hibernation

Hi people! Been out for quite a while. Well many things have happened. I've formed so many decisions in life...this time, this is for long term purpose.

Last Sunday & Monday, I already reported to my new company. So far, so good. And this coming Sunday will be my official joining date. This will going be a new environment...and a new challenge. Just hope that everything will be fine, though.

I have no significant post for today...that's it for now.

Lately, I've been too lazy posting blog entries... sooorrryyy...

Save the Auditor, Save the World!

I am really fascinated with TV Series...but my latest indulgence is the TV Series, HEROES! On the night of June 17, 2007 I finally finished its volume 1. This series really excites me...I really like the various twists in the story. I can't wait to start the volume 2.

My favorite character is PETER PETRELLI...not only because of his power (which is to absorb other people's powers) but ultimately because of his good looks! I crush him na... (hahaha!)...but believe me, it's been a long time since I last sooo admired a celebrity...and now, it really feels good. I so so so so love PETER PETRELLI..or let me say, MILO VENTIMIGLIA, his real name. Aside from being PETER in Heroes, he was also Jess Mariano in Gilmore girls.

Some artics from Wikipedia:

Ventimiglia was born in Anaheim, California to Carol and Peter Ventimiglia.[2] He is of Sicilian descent on his father's side and a combination of Irish, English, Scottish, French, Cherokee, and Indian descent on his mother's.[1] He was born with dead nerve endings in his lower left lip. Ventimiglia attended El Modena High School in Orange, California, where he wrestled and held the office of president in student government (ASB). He graduated in 1995.

At the age of 18, Ventimiglia received a scholarship to study at the American Conservatory Theater for their summer program.[3] He attended UCLA as an English major for four years but dropped out to pursue an acting career.

By the way, I also like Claire Bennet...primarily because of her power...SELF-HEALING/REGENERATION. I wish I can have that power...indestructible!!! Ooooppsss...I'm not Sylar...hehehe...

Sorry for this post...I'm not really like this...but this series really got me hooked and addicted! Now...SAVE THE AUDITOR, SAVE THE WORLD!*

*For those unfamiliar, the original quote is SAVE THE CHEERLEADER, SAVE THE WORLD...which is the main theme of the TV series.

8 working days left...

I am slowly counting the days left for me here in my desk. The desk I occupied for more than 1 year (not amusing, huh!)...the desk where I started gaining friends in Dubai...the desk which has been a witness of all my tantrums, videoke-while-working moments and my other extra curricular activities (wedding preps & photography)when I should be working at full time.

I'm not sure whether my next desk would be as good or as bad as this desk...actually, I am not even sure if this current desk has been good or bad for me. But one thing's for sure...I am leaving...but I'm still grateful for occupying this particular desk next to Edward's and "then Ryan's" desk.

8 working days to go...

Rich Dad woke me up...

It is very usual that every Sunday (which is the first working day here in Dubai), my officemates would ask, "How's your weekend?". And I just often say, "Well, as always, went to the mall and did some shopping...". And they would say, "Again?!?" and I would just say, "Yes!"

Going to the mall is our favorite pastime. Eventhough we sometimes do extraordinary things like desert safari, out of town, dhow cruise, swimming, etc...majority of our time is spent shopping and shopping and shopping. Sometimes I also do shoots (whether prenup or just for my own portfolio) on Fridays.

Last Friday, since I was able to buy clothes last week, Randy and I decided to go to Magrudy's (together with a couple of friends). We often go to Magrudy's if we feel like buying some books which are often related to our being "techie". Since I've been a dedicated auditor for such a long time, last year I already lost the appetite in buying books related to my career dev't. I sometimes feel guilty about it. It feels like I'm being 'happy-go-lucky' with regard to my future or our future. I just often buy any thing that I want...gadgets, books, magazines, clothes, shoes, bags, etc...without me noticing that I've been spending so much money on these short-term assets (I know some of them are long-term assets if we would apply some applicable accounting standards). But what I;m really talking about here are the assets that would help me shape my future or our future.

I love books. I really love books, ever since. I can still remember that during my childhood days, I am getting excited everytime we visit MAKATi. Not because of the toy stores or whatever...but because of the huge National Bookstore in Glorietta. I have tons of books back in the Philippines. Here in Dubai, I did not plan to buy so much books because these would just eat much of our space in our house. But still, I couldn't resist the temptation...seeing the books just sitting in the shelves of the bookstore...I've got to have some of them...Since I started to love gadgets and photography, these are just some of the books I was able to keep here (some of them were already shipped to the Philippines...because as I've said, they're eating so much space...too bad I have a husband like Randy who's really fond of throwing things back to the Philippines...sigh)

The only constant in this world is change...

Oooppsss...yes, you read it right. I've changed my blog title...now I'm including my hubby to it! He has gained enough knowledge (from me, hahaha...ayaw talaga patalo...) and I do think he is also enjoying my hubby...(pakitingnan na lang ang friendster account nya: "Ang hubby ni lei ay hubby ko na rin".).

Plus, plus, plus...we will be enrolling this Friday to a formal class in Photography...now, this is getting serious...para naman may ibang kwenta ang buhay namin bukod sa pagdodrawing nya at pago-audit ko...hehehe...

Supposed to be naka-enroll na kami sa Photography class last April, but then because of this US relocation thingy eh napostpone...hopefully, this time, wala nang aberya!

Oooppp (ulet)...daming tagalog sa post ko noh? BELATED HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY, mga kabayan!

...and also, HAPPY MONTHSARY, HONEY! (Oct.13, 1998 nang magsimula ang "Randy & Lei" lokohan at kadramahan, ahihihi!)

Re-inventing my niche

Last March 18, from Jumeirah 2, we finally transferred to our new place...BUR DUBAI! I just want to shout to the world that I'm really loving our new place. It has complete amenities. We have swimming pool with jacuzzi, sauna, gym, children's playground, lawn tennis/squash court and a 24-hour security service. So, I'm inviting my friends..if you feel like dipping into the pool and have sauna bath afterwards, come to our place...just send me a 1-day notice, okei?! hehehe...

Aside from that, we're now very near Burjuman Shopping Center! Super convenient...we're just behind the shopping mall. Well, I haven't also told you that we're also near the banks and gadget centers ... oh so much for this...sorry for that, I just love our new place...

Last Friday, we went to Ikea to shop for table and chairs. Before, Randy and I don't usually buy these bulky furnitures. But now, I was surprised that Randy initiated the idea of buying those...hahaha! We were able to buy 1 long table, 2 chairs, and curtain (na parang kulambo...if you can imagine..hehehe) and some other house stuff na mga kaartehan. Since my childhood, I really love rearranging things at home. Supposedly, I should be taking up Interior Design @ UP before. But then, my mom did not agree to that...eventhough I was already enrolled @ UP then, she still insisted for me to pursue BS Accountancy @ PLM, her alma mater.

But now, I'm soo happy that I was able to make our room look like what I have in mind. I soooo love our room. This is what we call a "true room"..."home sweet home"...even our housemates loved it! I still haven't put the "curtain na parang kulambo" sa ceiling to put some dramatic effect on our bed. But maybe next week, I'll be putting my hands on it. I won't post pictures for now...too lazy to shoot..hehehe... =)

PRENUPTIAL SHOOT: Rico & Emtee_Part 2

It's been a while since I last post pictures I have taken. What's new?!? For the past few days, I've been kicking my ass off to this night shifting arrangement. Thank God, for this coming week, I won't be on night shift. The client is on vacation...yipeeee!

And It's also been ages since I tried a prenuptial shoot. Well, here's another one...still with the same subject...but different location. Here are few of my favorite shots:











Blogger seems to be having problem in uploading...so I was not able to post much pictures. You can take a look for some more in my multiply site: http://lvillanera.multiply.com

Rico and Emtee are co-w@wies (hindi wowowee ha, Rico?). This is the 2nd time of holding prenup for them. The first time was held @ Burj Al Arab open beach, while this one was held @ Dubai Festival City. Before we started the shoot, we ate breakfast @ Ikea. While I used my Canon 400D, my hubby on the other hand used my old Sony DSC-H2. My hubby (Randy) has his own set of shots..which are also good, I should say. I will post my hubby's shots if time permits...medyo nagloloko talaga tong blogger. During the prenup shoot, Rico was having colds...and at the end of the day, guess what? After eating in Nando's for lunch, we were all sneezing na! hahaha... Right now, Randy has colds, Emtee has colds, and I have cough! hahahaha...talagang iba ako, ganun?! Supposed to be, after DFC, we would proceed to Madinat Jumeirah...but since Rico's colds was getting worse, we decided to call it a day @ 3pm.

It's really nice to hold prenups like this. Aside from the fact that I enjoy taking pictures, we are also having some bonding moments...to Rico and Emtee, Congratulations and Best Wishes...and of course, since I am a w@wie: HAPPY PREPS!!!

P.S. We already moved to a new place...a week ago! I'm no longer a jumeirah jane...but now a certified BUR DUBAI migrant! yey...I really love our new place...It's a 2-bedroom flat with hall which was converted to a "room" ...so that makes it 3-bedroom flat na. The other 2 rooms are occupied by the main tenant while Randy & I happily occupied one room! Yey, no more "attitude problems" to bear with roommates! hahahaha...

Flickr is back!

Sorry for the absence for a very long time...as always. For everybody to know, I'm now a 'stay-at-home' professional. And I'm not happy about it. My nerve-wracking, stubborn, and demanding client wants me to sync with their timing. And that also means to be in a conference call with them and webex for 6 hours every single night...that is from 6pm til 12am. Aside from that, she also wants me to finish the "scripting" (just like creating an audit program) by end of June. So, tell me, how can you finish the scripting if you're always on conference call for 6 hours every single night??? Let me remind her that my normal number of office hours is 8...so that means, I only have 2 hours remaining to do the scripts! Because of that, I've been rendering 12 hours of work everyday! This is not right...

So, just to take a breather, I decided today to visit my flickr account. Fyi, flickr has been blocked for ages by Etisalat (UAE network provider). Take a look what I got!



Take a closer look at the picture. Yes, I was able to access the site thru my pc laptop. But hey, when I tried it in my mac : waaaaahhhh! "SITE BLOCKED". So, I guess this is another assignment for me to accomplish. I tried Safari and Firefox...but none of them worked!

But, people from the UAE, why don't you visit my flickr account, http://www.flickr.com/photos/irobot773 and let me know what you got? So that I can somehow validate (hehehe!) whether flickr is really 'unblocked' or is it just my privoxy working on the background? hmmmm...

I shall return...

Yes! I'm back in Dubai!

Get a mac!

I just wanna share this link... a full punch for those pc protagonists, hahahaha...joke!

http://www.apple.com/getamac/ads/

Have fun watching the ads!

Then, go get a mac, hehehe!

My flickr badge!

Just want to share my flickr badge! Yey!

Look what I've got!

Yey, 3 more days and we'll be heading back to Dubai! Of course, before going back, I should have something that will make me forever remember Boston...aside from pictures and all the branded clothes at the very lowest price I've never imagined! Last Sunday, Randy and I decided to go to this IL PENO Resto, a mexican restaurant that offers delectable dishes! Eventhough it's too far from our hotel, we still decided to go...just for lunch. After lunch, since we're there already, we went to "Best Buy" just to check some gadgets...we had no intentions of buying since we're saving up for our business and my upcoming resignation...sssshhhh...

So, we went...everything was just normal...until I saw the price of their lenses! ohmigod...very cheap! To cut the long story short, we went home...me salivating with the lenses. When we reached the hotel, I started checking out prices and other outlet stores around the vicinity for photography materials and equipment. Until Randy came to this outlet store...CALUMET...and guess what, it's just a stone's throw away from our hotel! Yey! Only that...it closes @ 5:30PM.

So, this afternoon, after office, we hurriedly went to CALUMET...(we had no intentions of buying...but I can't really help myself...can't resist the temptation...sobrang mura!

That's me, waiting for my new lens....

And here's what I've got:





I was planning to buy 28mm-135mm at first. But it really costs a lot...it's way beyond my budget for now. So I just decided to buy the lens I really need for now...I was also planning to buy speedlight, diffuser and battery pack...But then, I still have to think about it. My savings are fully used up now...anyway, I still have 3 more days to think about it, hehehe! Pero mura talaga, promise! =)





Those are my first shots with my new telephoto lens! And this is Randy's first shot with my new lens (hehehe):



We were still not able to practice the main function of the lenses...to maximize it's focal length...maybe in the next coming days (If only I can watch a Red Sox game...that would be the best opportunity for me!). Right now, I'm still in the 'adjustment' stage since the lens is a little bit heavy for me...and I still find it hard to focus in low light conditions. Maybe I'll just use my 18-55mm lens for these lowlight conditions.

And oh, I was also able to buy 2 Quantaray filters during my 1st week here in US: (1) Polarizer (PL) and (2) Cross screen. My next aim is 50mm lens since it's cheaper (hehehe) and if circumstances permit, maybe I can buy the 28mm-135mm next time or 100mm macro lens...but I think I will just focus first on battery pack, speedlight & diffuser next time...hmmm...gulo koh!

If only I have enough moohla to spend now...sigh...sigh...sigh...priorities...priorities...priorities

X's: By the way, I posted some pictures I took last Saturday using my 18-55mm lens and polarizer...follow the link -- http://lvillanera.multiply.com

Fortune cookies

Ok...I owe each one of you a lot since I haven't posted any pictures from our trip last weekend. Promise, I'll do that this coming week. But I just can't help myself to blog about a certain happening when we had dinner (yes, you read it right..."we"... with randy) just few hours ago. We decided to try the subway and we went downtown. We walked and walked and finally reached the "Chinatown". We ate at Grand China Restaurant...and the food and serving were really great! But oh, this is not about that actually. Of course, after eating we were served with 2 pcs of fortune cookies. For those not familiar with this type of cookies: a Fortune Cookie is a thin folded cookie containing a slip of paper with a prediction or aphorism written on it, served in Chinese restaurants. So, Randy opened the 1st cookie...while I opened the second one. We were really shocked by what were written on the slips of papers...I guess it was a mistake that Randy opened the 1st one and I opened the 2nd one. It should be the other way around...since, the predictions really matched our current situations right now (if only I opened the right one, which is the 1st fortune cookie!)...So, here's what I got:

Randy ever since has been saying to me that whenever he's up to something, he first needs to experience real hardship in achieving it. So I guess, this prediction is really for him.
And here's what Randy got:

Okay, I've posted several blog entries about the offer of my boss to relocate me permanently here in US, together with Randy. My family, relatives and some friends are saying, "tanggapin mo yan, sayang yan!" But then, just recently, I decided to forego it...finally. I'm now fully decided to just stay in Dubai, pursue my career, and build my family...anyway, whatever happens, we'll still be going back in the Philippines. Truly, we must stick in the saying, "Kung san ka masaya, dun ka." Imagine, Randy is already here with me in the US...but still....I'M STILL NOT HAPPY. Parang may kulang...

But, what's the meaning of this prediction of our fortune cookie????Hmmm....

Total happiness!

Just wanna share my happiness...Randy is already here with me....well, that is after the 5-hour delayed flight...I was crying to death a while ago...kasi diko sya mahagilap kung nasan na sya. Thank god he arrived safely! I'm sooo happy today kahit na pinapatay ako ng kliyente sa mga pinaggagawa nya sakin...at least now, I'm no longer lonely here. Next thing, I'm looking forward? My return date to DUBAI! I miss my friends naman na...*Thank you, Floree, sa iyong gip...talaga namang pang 2nd honeymoon ito...hehehe* and also, I'm looking forward to my.....BIRTHDAY! ahihihi....

Tagged!

Well, I really have no idea how this works...but let me give it a try. I just copied and pasted the entry by Mai on which she included me as one of the four people who will answer this...oh well, here we go:

I've been tagged by Mai! Mai is a co-w@wie and we share common friends such as Wey & Dex. We were just able to know each other through our blogs.... *wink*

Four jobs I've had
1. Associate Auditor
2. Senior Associate Auditor
3. Validation Auditor
4. Senior Validation Analyst

Four movies I have watched over and over
1. City of Angels
2. Face off
3. Cheaper by the Dozen
4. Paycheck
(dami pa actually, mahilig ako mag ulet ng movies)

Four places I have lived in
1. Binan, Laguna
2. Marulas B, Caloocan
3. Makati City
4. Dubai, United Arab Emirates

Four TV shows I like to watch
(skip ko na lang to, di nako gano nanonood ng TV eh)

Four places I have been on vacation
1. Bohol/Cebu - one vacation kasi to eh
2. Puerto Galera
3. Baguio
4. US - 2nd honeymoon, kase punta si hubby dito sa Thursday! yipeeee!

Four of my favorite foods
1. Grilled bangus belly
2. Sinigang na bangus
3. Fettucini Alfredo
4. Tsokolate

Four places I would rather be right now
1. Dubai
2. Philippines
3. Dubai
4. Philippines

Four people who will answer this meme
1. Mahryska
2. Dianne
3. Jessica
4. Emtee

My 1st week in Cambridge, Massachusetts

Well, I am now here in Cambridge, Massachusetts. Like what I'd expected, I am here again...sad and lonely. People would tell me to try to enjoy and have fun here...but I can't really force myself. I can say I am not really a loner person...all I really care about for now is to have Randy here. Period. Tomorrow will be his interview for his L2 visa. After that, he will ask for a 2-week vacation to follow me here. The only problem is his alibi to let him go. Randy and I agreed to tell the truth to his company...that he's going here to accompany me because I'm getting sick already with the depression. Now, do you think his company will agree on that? Is that reasonable? My only justification for that is..."FAMILY FIRST". Tell me what you think.

I arrived here last April 17 11PM (EST). I checked in @ Marriott Cambridge. Because of the loneliness I'm feeling, I'm not really psyched to shoot...here are just some of the pictures I took @ my room @ Marriott Cambridge. Nothing's so spectacular though with my shots...just to give you some idea on how this place looks like.



These are some pictures of my room. My room is located @ 24th floor. There are 2 floors in Marriott where there is a high security requirement. Before you can use the elevator to go up to those 2 floors, you have to swipe your access card inside the elevator. That's high security, really...and guess what...my room is included to that, 24th and 25th floors. My room is supposed to be for 'elite members' only. Too good that my boss is considered one...since he made the reservation, I got his room type.



Well, here are some shots of the outside scene. When I came here, it was raining...the reason also for my 2-hour delayed flight @ JFK airport. See, how sad the scene looks like???

All hotels in the area are fully booked...so, the day after I checked in, I immediately transferred to Residence Inn Marriott. It was really hard for me to transfer from one hotel to another because I was carrying a big luggage and 2 laptops, and a DSLR camera...it was really a pain! So, when I checked in at Residence Inn Marriott, eventhough Marriott Cambridge is a better hotel, I immediately asked the front desk for an extended stay. (I was supposed to check out by April 20 @ Residence Inn and transfer again to Marriott Cambridge). So, here are some of the pictures of my present hotel...Residence Inn Marriott:


For this hotel, I got a suite room with 2 TVs, one for the sala, one for the bedroom...oh by the way, pardon me for the mess inside the bedroom...I'm doing the laundry while making this blog. It has complete amenities: indoor pool, gym, laundry room, microwave oven, fridge (not a personal one, a big one), stove, iron, ironing board, dishwashing machine, coffeemaker, sofa, office table, office chair, dining table, bed, etc. In short, some will consider it as a "home away from home". But not for me!!! I really miss Randy. Now, Im really praying hard that his company would allow him to go here for just 2 weeks. Lord, please help us...

Goodbye, DXB...goodbye habibi

All is set...I'm supposed to leave for Boston on Sunday, 8:30pm thru United Airlines. However, my passport won't arrive until Monday...so I asked my flight to be rescheduled sometime after Monday. I just don't know if our office administrator would be able to get another flight this week. I was interviewed yesterday for my L1 visa...a very irritating interview that is! Very technical...but it's not the main reason why I got irritated...it's because of the rude attitude of that stupid gay consulate officer. Oh well, let's just leave the memories of it.

I really hate to leave DXB...I know I will again suffer (for the 3rd time)with my dreadful insomnia and depression when I get there. To get ready for that, I made it a point I have enough pictures to look at...just in case I will miss Dubai...(btw, the duration of my stay there is unpredictable as of this moment. I might be there for 2 months, 3 months, 6 months or for permanency...I dunno...). Last week, after hearing the Easter Sunday mass, we walked from Oud Metha Road up to Burjuman...a looonggg walk, really. Of couse, I did not miss the opportunity to shoot...especially now that I will be offsite for a very long time. I just posted some of the dubai shots I have:

I like this sight along Oud Metha Road:
I got intrigued with the highlights in one of the walls of Mall of Emirates:
Another shot along Oud Metha Road:
The tower of the mosque nearest to our house in Jumeirah 2:
This shot was taken when we were buying fish in the open beach of Jumeirah 2:
Sorry for the blunt skies for this picture...too lazy for now to edit. Well, this is how Jumeirah 2 (Beach road) looks like in an early morning (7am)...no cars, less people...what a good sight....
This is the road we usually take from St. Mary's going to Burjuman (see how cute this little car is...):
One of the gasoline stations here in Dubai:

These are the sights I will somehow miss...but definitely, this is one face that I will surely crave for...each day, each hour, each minute, each second...

I love you and I will miss you, honey...

UPDATE: I'm still here in UAE. My flight is later this evening...but I cancelled it. My passport hasn't arrived yet...sana matagalan bago dumating... =(

Launching my multiply account...

Well, I've been in loooonnnngggg search of a good online gallery. I have considered primarily the capacity...but haven't settled to one. Actually, I should have stayed with Flickr...for me, it's still the best...but sad to say, Etisalat think otherwise. Flickr is still blocked within UAE. I was planning to acquire another online gallery account. But then, I have this feeling that Flickr will be revived in the coming days...since 'myspace' is now up and running once again in UAE!!! So I decided to dwell for now in free online galleries...which offer a good capacity and capabilities.

I have Friendster account, which by the way, has a max of 100 photos now. But that isn't sufficient for me. After so many hours of thinking, I thought of MULTIPLY account. I had this account since last year. But had no time to update the account because I just don't feel like maintaining the multiply account...I dunno.

But now, I decided to post my shots there...for the meantime...while still in high hopes that Flickr will be up and running in the coming days...so without much ado, I am now launching my multiply account:

http://lvillanera.multiply.com

Actually, the site is still under construction. And fyi, I am not dropping my blogspot account...blogs are still to be maintained here. 'til then!

I will forever remember "April 3, 2007"

April 3, 2007, 1:58AM - I was awakened by a text message: "Te, nasa perpetual si Pa2, ICU. Na-stroke."
That shakened me for a while...I hurriedly called my mother. Asked the whole story. Yes, as I've said in my previous post, my father was rushed to the hospital due to sudden numbing of the right portion of his body including the arms and legs. I was supposed to wake up @ 4am then to get ready for my interview with the US Consulate for my L1 visa. But the news I received that midnight did not let me fall asleep until the clock struck 4am.

At 4am, Randy and I took a shower already and hurried off to the US consulate. On our way, I called again my mother...another bad news hit me.
Mama: "Wag mo muna kami isipin, magconcentrate ka dun sa interview mo. Kasi medyo mabigat tong lagay ni Papa. Pagkatapos na nung interview mo, saka ko sabihin."
Lei: "Sabihin mo na, Ma...di rin ako matatahimik."
Mama: "Eh kelangan daw operahan sa utak si Papa..."
At that moment, I wanted to stop everything in this world...I wanted to scream. But instead, I just cried and prayed. I thank Randy for being there...he's always there.

At 5:30 am, we already reached the Dubai World Trade Center where the US Consulate is located. I was interviewed by 7:45 am..I was the 1st one to be interviewed...and also the 1st one who got approved!!! It was supposed to be a good news...but I can't feel any excitement at that moment. The world remained still.

Because I haven't slept that much, Randy & I decided not to go to work on that day. On our way home, I called again my family. My elder sister told me,:
Ate: "Te, P200,000 ang hinihingi nung neuro-surgeon na mag oopera kay Papa..professional fee pa lang yun.Merong nirefer sakin yung madre sa Mater na doctor sa PGH. Mas mura sana dun, kaso ayaw magpakausap nung attending physician ng Perpetual.Kaya di pa namin mailipat si Papa."
Lei: "Eh bakit ayaw magpakausap?"
Ate: "Ewan ko. Ang huling sinabi nya lang, di pwede itravel si Papa baka mamaga yung ugat at pumutok.Gusto sanang kausapin nung Doctor sa PGH, ayaw naman magpakausap nung doctor dito sa perpetual."
Lei: "Grabe naman sila! PERA-petual talaga yang mga yan!"

So that's the gist of our conversation. I was fuming mad then. When we reached home, I called again...my sister's husband told me: "Te, medyo makakahinga ka na...hindi na ooperahan si Papa. Nagrespond sa gamot yung utak nya...so dito na lang sya. Baka malipat na sya sa Ward."

Then I started to cry...it was really an answered prayer. Though my father is still sick, I am somehow relieved knowing that my father will no longer undergo an operation. I then called our relatives in US...told them the bad news about my father and at the same time good news (but still bad news for me) that I would be able to visit them in just a matter of days.

After a few minutes, I received a call from our office administrator. She told me that my boss called up to inform me that I might be leaving for Chicago on Thursday or Friday, depending on the arrival of my passport with visa stamp. Another bad news, that is!!!

Some people would do everything just to reach the soil of the United States (some would react to this, I know...but let's face it. People see "USA" as the solution to every single problem in the world!)...but ever since, I am not that eager to go there. First reason, I don't want again to be separated from Randy even for just a single day. I have experienced that twice already. Second reason, at this moment, I still need a shoulder to cry on...because of my father's condition. And to be in a strange land during these times would be harder for me. I am not sure if I would survive all alone feeling depressed every single day. Third, I don't want a complicated life...talking about visa approvals, visa changes, petitions, etcetera, etcetera. Fourth, I hate TAXES!!!! Here in Dubai, I enjoy each centavo, rather fils of my hard-earned money. I can buy stuff without worrying too much about the tax to be imposed. Fifth, the airfare of going back to Pinas is very much cheaper...(right now, the Singapore Air is offering Dhs1390 for AUH-MNL-AUH flight...great deal! if only I have enough leave credits). So I prayed very hard that my flight be postponed even just for 1 week.

Thursday, just after lunch...I again got an answered prayer! My passport arrived already...but lo and behold, instead of having an L1 visa stamp, I got a B1/B2 visa!!! It was a mistake! To cut the long story short, I need to appear again to the US Consulate and apply for my L1 visa. So, I scheduled an appointment...and guess what? the earliest available date is April 22nd. So that means, I won't be leaving until after the 22nd! yey! I still have more time to cope up with my life...and with Randy. But wait, I think that would mean I will again celebrate my bday out of the country...and without Randy...sigh...when will I have peace of mind? When will the problems disappear completely? Now, tell me...please.

I need everyone's prayer...

I just want to take this opportunity to solicit prayers from you, my readers. Because of the severe hot weather in the Philippines, my father was rushed to the hospital last midnight. He was admitted @ the ICU of Perpetual Help of Laguna Hospital. Supposed to be, he would be subjected to an operation...a brain operation, super delicate...but through the God's goodness, just this morning, we were informed that his brain responded well to his medicines. We're praying very hard for him to be transferred na to 'ward' from ICU. Aside from the worries we have for my father's condition, the ICU expenses are really giving us a hard time in recovering from depression...

Please share a little prayer for my father...we really need it.

Thank you so much.

Playing around Photoshop...

Just played around Photoshop...utilizing our first prenup shoot outputs:





FYI: The Dubai skies are not sooo beautiful..so we decided to put more life!

Dubai Festival City

Friday night, March 30, 2007 -- We went to Dubai Festival City...this newly-built shopping mall is simply amazing!!! Not only that you can find Sweden's No.1 home store, IKEA..but also, you'll find this shopping mall amusing because of its magnificent interiors!!! I sooo love this shopping mall. Early last year (I think), IKEA started its operations in DFC (one of the 1st stores to open in DFC)...syempre di namin pinalagpas...almost every month, we see to it that we visit IKEA...but now, natapos na ang construction ng halos 80% of DFC...lots of boutiques...yey! Let me share some of the pictures that I took...









So far, I'm quite satisfied with my outputs since this is my 1st time to shoot in low light scene without much blur on my shots...please give me a well-deserved applause for that! yiheee...clap!clap!clap! For the previous months, everytime I shoot in low light scenes, I just feel disgusted with my outputs...either I throw those away or process those in Photoshop. I usually translate it to a monochromatic scene just to hide the blurs...but now, look at me, hahaha...most of the pictures above are unedited (setting aside the signature). But still, I know, I have much, much, much, much rooms for improvement. Next assignment...control the light rays...that's the next thing I will master...and one more thing: THE COURAGE to shoot in prohibited areas (e.g., inside the stores & boutiques)...--> I have lots of shots inside IKEA, Hyper Panda, Naturalizer, Lacoste, etc..but ended up throwing out the pictures...too much blurrrrrrrrr....probably because of my trembling hands, hehehe! Just a backgrounder, I always get caught by guards everytime I position my camera for the last few shoots I've been to...(sigh!)